7 Principles for Seeking God as a Busy Mom
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Being a mom is a beautiful, challenging journey—much like seeking God. It’s a messy ordeal, full of ups and downs.
Some days, you’re ready to conquer the world with worship music blasting, as if you receive energy directly from the good Lord above.
Other days, you lament like David over a burnt meal in the oven because you were juggling bath time with the kids.
Take a deep breath. It’s okay.
As a busy mom, you might wonder how to stay intentional about your relationship with the Lord. There doesn’t seem to be time to sit and read the Bible or pray, but I’ve learned that I need time with God for the rest of my day to function.
We must stay plugged into the Source.
1. Embrace the Season You’re In
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Let’s start here: There’s no such thing as perfect balance.
No matter what Instagram might suggest, not a single mom is juggling everything flawlessly. There’s always tension between what needs to be done and what can realistically get done.
So what is God calling you to focus on RIGHT NOW?
Sometimes, the undeniable truth is that you have too much on your plate. I’m currently struggling with this myself.
As a mom of three, I work full time and chase my dreams while everyone sleeps.
I’ve always loved my job. Working full-time provides financial benefits in this uncertain economy, but lately, I’ve asked God what He wants me to focus on.
I thought he would tell me some new adventure to focus on. But the funny thing is, He led me right back to my children.
They are who He is calling me to.
Sometimes, we overcomplicate chasing our calling when God has blessed us with the calling of a lifetime—to raise the little ones He entrusted us with.
And spoiler alert, God does not play about these precious little children if you haven’t read the Bible.
This might not be your season to be the glamorous girl boss. Maybe it’s your season to be the messy hair in a bun, pouring love and truth into your kids. And that is sacred.
God may still open doors for other things, but embrace what He’s calling you to focus on now.
On the other hand, if you’ve been home for years and feel the Lord calling you toward something new, lean into Him for wisdom. Seek first the Kingdom of God, and all these things will be added to you (Matthew 6:33).
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Transition if Needed
Once you’ve discerned what God is calling you to, prepare your heart for the shift. It might feel scary, but peace will follow if it’s from God.
When we moved houses recently, it was hard on the kids and felt risky as they were settled and happy, but we couldn’t ignore the tug on our hearts.
Since the move, we’ve seen simple but beautiful changes—like being closer to our church, allowing us to be more involved as a family, and having regular date nights with my husband.
I still write this blog and work on my novel while holding a nine-to-five job, and yes—it’s possible. At first, I wanted to master being a busy mom, proving I could do it all, but I know there will come a time when something has to go.
Being a busy mom doesn’t mean doing everything. It means knowing what matters most.
Ask God to show you what’s driving your choices. Is it comparison? Insecurity? Or obedience?
Ask for His wisdom and guidance on what to prioritize.
Once the Lord reveals your next step, you must decide to move forward boldly.
Another thing to consider when transitioning is that you must not care what it looks like to the outside world.
They can’t possibly understand the conversations you are having with God.
Life is SO much sweeter when you obey Him, not man’s opinion.
2. Prioritize Time With God
One of my secret weapons? Waking up early.
Yes, I know—it’s not what you want to hear. But those quiet morning hours are golden.
I set my alarm for 3:50 a.m. most days. It’s not glamorous, but it’s worth it. Whether you’re a night owl or a morning person, the goal is to find intentional moments of quiet to seek God first.
Even when my routine shifts, I aim to stay grounded in this rhythm. And every time I stray, I feel the difference.
When I return to the Lord, peace always follows.
On days when time is short, here are a few ways to stay spiritually fed:
Quick Devotions and Spiritual Habits for Busy Moms
Morning Prayer: A few minutes of gratitude, surrender, and scripture.
Evening Reflection: Pause before bed to thank God and invite His peace into tomorrow.
Chew on the Word: Pick one verse and meditate on it throughout your day.
Spiritual Reading: Books and blogs that enrich your walk with God. Check out my post: 3 Must-Read Faith Books for Spiritual Growth for ideas.
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3. Use Technology to Stay Connected
Technology isn’t the enemy; it can actually be a lifeline in your spiritual growth.
Tools I Recommend:
Bible App: I love YouVersion. You can find reading plans, verse-of-the-day reminders, and audio options for multitasking.
Try The Bible Recap by Tara Leigh Cobble—it helps you read through the Bible with clarity and context.
Christian Podcasts:
At Home with the Beveres
Conversations with John & Lisa Bevere
With the Perrys
Whoa, That’s Good with Sadie Robertson
These podcasts have encouraged me deeply, especially before I found a church home.
But here’s your reminder: Nothing replaces the Word of God itself.
Let these tools supplement your faith, not substitute it.
Worship Playlists: Curate your own playlist on Spotify or Apple Music. Keep praise on your lips while cooking, driving, or folding laundry.
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4. Incorporate Faith Into Daily Routines
Jesus said in John 15:4, “Abide in me, and I in you.”
Abiding sounds simple, but it’s an active process. It means inviting God into every part of your day.
Here’s how I’ve learned to do that:
Pray While Doing Chores: Washing dishes? Folding laundry? These moments can become sacred when you pray while working.
Pray With Your Kids: Start and end the day with short, meaningful prayers together.
Family Devotions: Read a Bible story at dinner or before bedtime. Let them ask questions—even the silly ones.
Worship in the Car: Some of my most tender moments with God have been while driving to work with worship music on.
Gratitude Journal: Jot down three things you’re thankful for daily.
Mindful Pauses: Take a deep breath midday. Whisper, “God, I’m still with You.”
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5. Find Support in Community
I never thought I’d be a churchgoer.
My husband and I loved our little bubble—watching sermons online, doing things our way.
But one day, I sensed the Holy Spirit nudge me:
“You can’t keep this to yourself.”
We visited a church. And found home. Found people. Found purpose.
Community changes everything.
Go to Church: Even if it’s imperfect. Even if it’s awkward at first.
God uses community to sharpen and strengthen us.Join a Group: Moms’ Bible studies (in person or online) can provide accountability and refreshment.
Find a Mentor: A woman who’s a little ahead of you in life and faith can speak wisdom and hope into your season.
Be Vulnerable: You don’t have to have it all together. Real connections are made when we’re real.
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6. Serve Others as Part of Your Faith
Jesus came to serve, not be served. So do we.
You don’t have to do something grand. You just need to do something, faithfully, humbly, with love.
Get Involved at Church: Help with the nursery. Join a local outreach event. Say yes to serving in small ways.
Model Service to Your Kids: Let them see faith in action, not just in words.
Love Your Neighbors: A meal. A text. A helping hand. It doesn’t have to be big to be kingdom work.
“Whoever loses their life for My sake will find it.” — Matthew 10:39
When you pour into others, God pours back into you. Service is sanctifying. It grows us.
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7. Rest in God’s Grace
This one might be the hardest.
Motherhood comes with high expectations—some from others, most from ourselves. But God never asked us to be perfect.
He asks us to abide in His grace.
Embrace Imperfection: The laundry will pile up. The to-do list will stay undone. That’s okay.
Rely on His Strength: “My grace is sufficient for you, for my power is made perfect in weakness.” — 2 Corinthians 12:9
Honor the Sabbath: True rest shows that we trust God to hold it all, even when we stop.
Be Still and Know: Stillness isn’t inactivity—it’s sacred trust.
Pace Yourself: You don’t have to sprint. God grows us slowly, deeply, beautifully.
Remember His Grace is New: “Because of the Lord’s great love we are not consumed… His mercies are new every morning.” — Lamentations 3:22–23
Final Encouragement
In the beautiful chaos of motherhood, God is with you.
You don’t have to do it all. You don’t have to get it perfect.
His grace fills the gaps. His presence is your peace.
As you lean on Him, seek community, and make space for His voice, you’ll find that even in the busiest seasons—God is never far.
